If she was at mine, she EXPECTED to get dinner. If I was at hers when dinnertime rolled around, they would make up an excuse and say that they didn't have "enough food" for me too, and made me wait in the living room by myself while they ate. And it was starting to get really frustrating and insulting, how she always expected to get snacks and dinner at ours, but if I went to hers, I got an apple. Not that an apple is anything to sneeze at, but it wouldn't exactly fill a hungry kid-tummy after hours of play. If I was really hungry at hers, she would say, begrudgingly, that her mom would allow me to have one apple. She/they sure seemed to think it applied whenever she was the guest at someone else's house. I feel it's a pretty unspoken social "rule" of politeness/courtesy, that if you have a guest over, you offer them something to eat and/or drink. Whenever I would go to her house, I never got any food, it was never offered, no matter how late I stayed. Now, this wouldn't have been a problem, if the same courtesy was returned. Whenever she went to my house, or some other friend's house, she would immediately ask for food. Her family was nice and all, with one exception: sharing. We met in elementary school, and stopped being friends in our teens. There was a girl I used to be friends with. The person begging must be at least in the gradient of being an entitled jerk, this sub is not a place to mock povertyīe sure to check out our new sub for ChoosingBeggars memes and other stuff: /r/IndecentExposure If that person is offered a Nintendo and they scoff at the suggestion, then that would be a good post. That's someone begging, but without a sense of entitlement. If that same person turns down someone offering to give them a ride to work because they don't want to be seen in a PT Cruiser, then that post would fit.Ī parent asking for handouts because their kids want an Xbox for Christmas and the only way that could happen is if someone donates one, that isn't a choosingbeggar. They got the beggar part down, but this sub is not /r/beggars so that post wouldn't fit. If someone ran out of money and needs gas money to get to work and the only thing they can think of is to make a status update on Facebook asking if anyone can spare them some money, they aren't really being choosy. Ugly people are allowed to want a partner with a job, or no kids, or anything else we would consider reasonable for the beautiful people.Ī person asking for help with life's necessities out of desperation is not a choosingbeggar Unattractive people seeking a normal relationship and having reasonable standards is not a good fit for this sub. "Found on Facebook", "This belongs here", "Saw this on snapchat", "□□" etc are hard to find later, give at least a little bit for us to go on, thanks. Obviously fake or otherwise unsuitable content may be removed. Moderators may use discretion to upkeep the quality of the subreddit. No reposts from top 100, front page or last 12 months.
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